Reforming Adoption: Children should have permanency, whether it's permanency back home or permanency with a relative or adoptive family. Children should not be in a system, children should be with a family.
The Uniform Adoption Act does not provide important protections for adoptive parents, or children who are subject to adoption.
The adoption system is not working because it has never taken its professed basic purpose seriously: Serving the Best interests of Children. A look at the reality of adoption makes it clear that the best interests of none of the key people -- adoptive parents, foster parents or children -- are the driving force behind the policies and laws which govern adoption. . . . The bottom line is that our laws and adoption institutions see children as property. The blindness of the legal system to the child's psychological and emotional needs is devastating to the child, they will suffered in separation and negative emotional impact on their lives will last forever. I can not begin to even explain how a child feels when they are taken from their parents (care takers as the courts call us). I feel to this day that we are being used. We are just caretakers, a baby parking lot, while the birth mother has moved on with her life of partying , no education,or responsibilities. She has never given any type of monetary or moral support to the child. But she can come back 2 years later and just take the child away, a child that does not know her. Common sense dictates that to take a child out of an environment where she's firmly attached and settled is the ultimate devastation.
More has to been done with our legal system Our children aren't being protected enough We have to fight for them, because they can't fight for themselves
Remember, the children you hurt today, especially when it becomes so many - will lead the world tomorrow, and you'll be dependent on their kindness in your elderly years. Being neglected, forgotten and abused - is no way to treat ANY human.
There is not one second in our lives that we don't fear losing our precious child, we wake up not knowing what the day will bring, are we going to get another summons for custody.
Our little girl has been diagnosed with in utero drug/ alcohol exposer. That is not reversable and she will suffer the rest of her life. She is now in speech and occupational therapy.
We love our little girl and our hearts are being torn apart, not knowing how else we can protect her from this vicious battle we have ahead of us. How do we make sure our little girl has a promising safe future. Common sense dictates that to take a child out of an environment where she's firmly attached and settled is the ultimate devastation.
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