Voice for "Womans Disability" rights

I was a hard worker, single 41yrs old mother of 2 boys when I was stripd from what I considered the only financial backdone support I had for my family. I was injured in 2016 n i still 2020 haven't been able to go to work because of medical conditions I have n future ongoing issues which requires more surgery n continue till I die. I have well enough "paid in" and qualify to get my benefits that I so deserve. I can't work but still need to care for my boys. I have been denied, postponed 2xs, and still waiting on benefits from social security disability. My conditions aloan automatically qualify but still waiting after 2 years!! Plz give us what we work so hard for without loosing everything we work our whole lives to get!!!!!!